When I think about love, the first think comes to my mind was him (Jonathan). He made my life become so beautiful so colorful. He brought me a lot of smiles and happiness but that soon changed. I don’t know when it happened, when we went from being best friends to not even know each other. If I had to guess it all went downhill when we moved in. My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me and the crazy part is that I didn’t even know because I chose to be oblivious. Now this is where it gets crazy, because I started noticing him change, him being cold and distant. I was so busy caught up with work and school that I didn’t care. People always say that sex doesn’t play a big part in relationships, but it does, and we weren’t having any of it. To make my long story short, one random day I just went with my gut feeling and looked through his phone. I thought the world was ending, I found videos, pictures and messages that I wasn’t ready for. I started to ‘cheat’ on him. I started flirting with men and flirting with his friends, in front of him. Then, I broke up with him. Revenge is never the way. I know that now and this experience taught me that.